My stepsons grandmom see him for an overnight visit every other week. With the Coronavirus we said it was best for him to stay home this weekend. She is trying to tell us that she spoke directly to a judge and that this judge spoke to her Bout my 10 year old daughter who has nothing to do with the case nor her. She’s a stranger to my daughter. My ex and I are sticking to our arrangement for now. I’m her mother. She’s just a grandmother and Jake is asthmatic and we think he should stay home... she also keeps saying that the judge wanted to know if he was caught up on vaccines and that he was going to look into it tomorrow... we keep asking her what judge she spoke to and she won’t answer us. She has a past history of constantly lying and always saying her lawyer this and that. We have proven in past she is lying. But she is going to far bringing my daughter into this.
While I cant speak with certainty regarding your matter, I am doubtful that the exchange occurred as it was described in your post. That being said, I would suggest that you contact a family law attorney in your area to have a consultation regarding all of your options and the specifics of your matter.
I have appeared many times in family court on issues of visitation and custody and I have never heard a judge say anything like what has been suggested here. It would be unethical and completely out of line. Judges only discuss the case that is before them with the litigants, and do not discuss other cases. They take children's privacy issues quite seriously, as they must.
