PER CURIAM.
Maria Aguilar (hereinafter "mother") appeals the termination of her residual parental rights to her child, S.A. Mother asserts the trial court erred in finding that the Harrisonburg Rockingham Social Services District (hereinafter "HRSS") proved by clear and convincing evidence S.A.'s abuse presented a serious and substantial threat to her life, health or development and that it was not reasonably likely that the conditions resulting in such neglect or abuse could be substantially corrected or eliminated so as to allow S.A.'s safe return to mother.
For the reasons stated, we affirm the trial court's decision.
When reviewing a decision to terminate parental rights, we presume the circuit court "`thoroughly weighed all the evidence, considered the statutory requirements, and made its determination based on the child's best interests.'"
The following day, Froude visited mother in her home and reiterated S.A. could have no contact with Cruz. On February 21, 2013, Froude petitioned for a protective order prohibiting contact between S.A. and Cruz. The juvenile and domestic relations district court issued the order on February 27, 2013.
An abuse and neglect hearing was scheduled for March 13, 2013, but on March 9, 2013, S.A. was hospitalized in Charlottesville for a ruptured appendix. Neither mother nor Cruz appeared for the hearing. Instead, on the day prior to the hearing, mother submitted a medical note asking that she be excused so that she could care for her daughter. On March 12, 2013, S.A. was discharged from the hospital. When Froude visited mother's home the following day, she discovered mother had taken her two daughters out of school, gathered their belongings, and moved out of their trailer.
Suspecting mother had driven the children to the home of Cruz's mother in Texas, Froude notified Texas authorities. Upon investigating, the Texas authorities found Cruz, mother, and mother's two daughters in the home. The home was located close to the Mexican border. Cruz was arrested. The two girls were placed in the custody of Texas social services on March 14, 2013. When Froude and another social worker flew to Texas on March 18, 2013 to retrieve the girls, they found S.A. in pain, pale, and clutching her right side. Mother acknowledged to social worker Sarah Davis she had failed to give S.A. the medications prescribed upon S.A.'s release from the hospital.
S.A.'s incision abscessed, and she required emergency surgery on March 20, 2013. She was placed in the intensive care unit for several days. After remaining in the hospital for approximately a week, S.A. was discharged and returned to her foster home.
Initially, HRSS established a goal of returning S.A. home, with a concurrent goal of a relative placement. However, during a counseling session in April 2013, mother reported she did not believe Cruz should be punished and that the sexual assault claims by her daughter were the result of a "misunderstanding." She stated that Cruz was a "great man."
Mother also lied to her therapist about the frequency and nature of her contact with Cruz. While mother told therapist Ana Arias that she had had a "few" phone conversations with Cruz in which she "yell[ed]" at him, Arias discovered mother had frequently conversed with Cruz during his incarceration. In late May 2013 Arias confronted mother and told mother she had listened to jailhouse recordings of mother's conversations with Cruz. The couple declared their love for each other during the conversations and made plans for the future. Cruz reassured mother he would return after he was deported and had a "job lined up in Philadelphia." Mother offered to help Cruz financially in retaining a better criminal defense attorney. Cruz told mother "next time we'll take [the children] to Mexico and I'd like to see the fucking government follow us there."
When mother's psychological evaluation was completed in June 2013, it noted mother had a dependent personality, "idealized" Cruz, and did "not want to believe the sexual abuse occurred." Mother appeared on behalf of Cruz in criminal proceedings in October 2013 and testified she saw no evidence he had touched S.A. inappropriately and that she did not believe he would do so.
On October 31, 2013, HRSS established a new goal of adoption and terminating mother's parental rights.
At the time of the termination hearing, S.A.'s counselor, Jenny Kusyzk, testified that S.A. suffered from post traumatic stress disorder. She explained that S.A. and her sister were living with foster parents experienced in dealing with victims of trauma and the need for ongoing support services. Kusyzk noted that S.A. was attached to her foster parents and had "nightmares about leaving." Kusyzk also observed that the foster parents represented a potential adoptive home for S.A.
Following her placement with her foster parents, S.A. was "healing" and earning good grades in school. She reported she was "terrified" of Cruz, against whom she testified in criminal proceedings. She remained fearful he would hurt her and her mother, and expressed concern her mother would not protect her or her sister if they returned home.
At the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court found the evidence sufficient to terminate mother's residual parental rights under Code § 16.1-283(B) and Code § 16.1-283(C)(2). This appeal followed.
The "termination of residual parental rights is a grave, drastic, and irreversible action,"
Code § 16.1-283(B) provides that the residual parental rights of a parent of a child found by the court to be neglected or abused and placed in foster care as a result of court commitment may be terminated if clear and convincing evidence proves that it is in the best interests of the child and that:
"[S]ubsection B `speaks prospectively' and requires the circuit court to make a judgment call on the parent's ability, following a finding of neglect or abuse, to substantially remedy the underlying problems."
Even after S.A. was removed from mother's custody, and suffered post-surgical complications that required ICU treatment, mother placed her own needs above those of her daughter. While mother suggested to her therapist her contact with Cruz was hostile and limited, she spoke with him frequently, professed her love for him, and discussed plans for their future upon his release. Even after mother received psychological counseling, and even though S.A.'s abuse was severe enough to cause S.A.'s post traumatic stress disorder, mother refused to acknowledge her daughter's abuse and testified on Cruz's behalf at his criminal trial. Cruz was acquitted and released from jail, leaving S.A. "terrified" he would hurt her again.
"It is clearly not in the best interests of a child to spend a lengthy period of time waiting to find out when, or even if, a parent will be capable of resuming his [or her] responsibilities."
Based on this record, the trial court was entitled to conclude that mother was unwilling to sacrifice her relationship with Cruz in order to help S.A. recover physically and emotionally and, despite counseling, did not intend to protect her daughter from abuse in the future. On the contrary, the evidence proved mother continued to place S.A. at risk by refusing to support her daughter emotionally, by assisting Cruz in his release from jail, and by planning to include him in the family's future. By contrast, S.A. was happy, stable, and "healing" in her foster home.
Thus, the evidence is overwhelming that termination of mother's parental rights was in S.A.'s best interests, that the neglect and abuse of S.A. was serious and presented a substantial risk to her life, health, and development, and that, despite counseling services, mother was unwilling and unable to substantially remedy the conditions that resulted in S.A.'s neglect or abuse so as to allow S.A.'s safe return home within a reasonable period of time.
Accordingly, we affirm the decision of the circuit court.