Poa
Hi, As my mom's executor of her
estate and health care serogate for
the last two years I have incurred
numerous bills. To begin with, she
lives in Naperville, Il and I live in
Kenosha WI. I have not collected any
money from my mom, however, it
has gotten to a point where I can't
afford to carry on this way; knowing
I am taking from my own three
children and husband. I have paid for
background checks of caregivers,
paid their fees when my mom
couldn't, gas & milage to go back and
forth to pay her bills and check in on
caregivers,groceries, phone bills, not
to mention the inordinate amount of
time I have already spent. As an
executor, am I supposed to be paid
now and if so what is reasonable? or
am I paid at the time of death? If so,
what is the percentage? I have
heard 10% and then 20 %. Thank
you in advance for your help.