Was intimate with a woman like a month ago, she text and said she was pregnant, and that her iud fell out. Explain that didnt want any kids from the get go. But it might be a strong possibility not mines, but for now ill go with the flow. Ask if she would get an abortion but she said no. Can you legally be forced to be a parent if you dont want to be ? Also the entire time thought her birth control was good come to find out not. If i would of know i would of protected myself.
Yes a man has absolutely no legal right to force the abortion of his child and if paternity is established then the court will order the non custodial parent to pay child support for 18 years.
Unfortunately for you, if she chooses not to have an abortion, and presuming that you are the father, you will be liable for child support for at least the next 18 years. That being said, I would insist on a DNA test to confirm paternity to determine whether or not you are the actual father.