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I should start off by saying that I have never been married and I'm currently going through a hard time with the father of my son. My son father's ex girlfriend, a long with multiple people have texted me stating that the father has been using drugs (he has had a past with smoking pot) they also brought up how he would slap my 2 year old in the mouth and stated that if needed too that they would appear in court. His ex said she took care of all my childs necessitys, and took care of him while his dad did not took care of him, she also mentioned that he talked about running of with him and not returning him (id print out all conversations just to have the documentation) now I'm not heartless I do want him to be in his son life I just would prefer to have supervised visits just to insure my child's safety.

My son use to love going over there but something had to change, as time went on my child's behavior towards his father changed. When he would go over to his dads house my son would scream and his dad had to pull him off of me.

I don't allow him to see him now just because I had to apply for childsupport and he pretty much stated that he wasn't the dad but paternity test says otherwise. After 2/3 months now he's interested in seeing him again. Which is fine but I'd rather have something written in paper, so he can't just run off with our son and because of the concern of my son is safe.

I did allow my son to go over there every other weekend before this all happend but we didn't have a legal document set up for visitations.

I just wanted to know you're opinion about all this situation and what should my next steps be. Thank you

Asked in IA May 18, 2022

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Parents created a Living Trust Feb 2014, for which I am the Trustee. I also have the Last Will and Testament and also Power of Attorney for Health Decisions. Jun 2016 my mother was diagnosed with a terminal illness Congestive Heart Failure and was advised by the doctors to be home-bound, My father was diagnosed with dementia and pneumonia. My father was hospitalized Sept 2 2016, he was then taken to nursing home, he later died Sep 10. My mother at 80, was obviously very distraught, depressed, and very vulnerable. Sept 29, my sister took her to the bank (despite being homebound) to close her checking account and open a new one with my sister's name. When my father's life insurance ($20k net after funeral expenses), she also took that money even thought it should have been part of the Trust. During this time, my sister have been manipulating and brainwashing my vulnerable mother that I was taking money out of their checking account (this was actually authorized by them since I have been taking care of them since 2013 when my father lost his driver's license due to his glaucoma). My sister also convinced my mom that I 'threw them like garbage' into the nursing homes. My father was admitted to nursing home because he had no assurance of 24hour care at home and my mother was admitted to nursing home due to a fall. So them being in nursing home is more of a necessity. I believe that my sister convinced my mom to make changes on the trust. My question is, if there is any changes to trust, fall under 'undue influence' ? how can I prove this in court so that I can maintain the original terms of the trust.
Asked in CA May 18, 2022

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