No, this situation as described would appear to require the professional services of a Virginia attorney appropriately experienced in real property and probate law. And, furthermore, any attempts to handle such a matter (pro se) on your own and without counsel is certainly to be a losing prescription (in my opinion), and if you cannot afford to retain such counsel from your own funds, then get these other 12 cousins who supposedly have a legal interest in this matter to "chip in" their respective shares so that competent counsel can be retained to represent you (and the others as may be appropriate) in what certainly appears to be on its face a legally complicated case.
