Quite simply, if you are not sure about your attorney, and you have confronted them, and you are still unhappy, you should get another attorney (truth be told, they're a dime a dozen - don't feel too loyal to your attorney. Chances are that the loyalty is a one-way street). For instance, you mention that your attorney seems to be favoring opposing party demands. This perception of yours may or may not be accurate. Regardless, it is your perception of your attorney - and he's working for you - and you're paying him. Find someone you trust. You are doing neither him nor yourself a favor by maintaining/forcing an unfavorable relationship. By the way, no, that would not be good practice to tell you to look it up at the courthouse. Just another reason to get another attorney. I would recommend an attorney familiar with the local rules of the jurisdictional court - particularly on an elder/family law matter in Fresno where who you know is probably more important than the facts of any particular case. As you seek another attorney, be truthful with yourself about your role in your deteriorated relationship with your current attorney. It will help you be up front with new counsel about your expectations.