If you need an extension of time to file your responsive papers, call opposing counsel and ask for one. You can normally get a 15-day extension without a court order, and most opposing attorneys will grant this extension as a matter of courtesy.

If opposing counsel refuses to grant the extension, you will almost certainly have to file. You could ask the Court for an extension on an ex parte basis, but you would need to prepare papers, give notice, et cetera. This would be more complicated than simply filing papers.

In an absolute worst case scenario, at least get your answer on file to protect you from a default. You will have to seek leave to amend later on to get a cross-complaint on file, but that is usually granted as a matter of course if you do so quickly.

If you need an extension of time to file your responsive papers, call opposing counsel and ask for one. You can normally get a 15-day extension without a court order, and most opposing attorneys will grant this extension as a matter of courtesy.

If opposing counsel refuses to grant the extension, you will almost certainly have to file. You could ask the Court for an extension on an ex parte basis, but you would need to prepare papers, give notice, et cetera. This would be more complicated than simply filing papers.

In an absolute worst case scenario, at least get your answer on file to protect you from a default. You will have to seek leave to amend later on to get a cross-complaint on file, but that is usually granted as a matter of course if you do so quickly.