What are the legal consequences for this?
-My boyfriend's mother, who had been very welcoming of me for the past year, has been blaming me for the recent leave of her son. I am living on campus at a nearby university and my boyfriend has moved out of his house for the past 2 weeks, and I have been letting him stay with me until he finds his own place. His mother refuses to accept the fact that he left his family because of them. She, instead, accuses me of "pulling him away" and basically forcing him to leave his home. Today, I received a text message from her, explaining that I must convince him to come back home within the time limit of 2 days. If I do not comply or my attempts fail to bring him back, she will seek out my home and reveal negative things about me to my conservative parents (i.e. sleeping over at the house, smoking marijuana, living with a boyfriend in my dorm, etc.) I responded to this by saying "Do not threaten me. Blackmailing is illegal in this country, and I will save your message." Truth be told, I have no idea what I could do..
I have joint legal and physical custody of my 2 children, 11yo boy and a 9 yo girl. The children visit their father most days of the week and spend the night 8 nights a month.
The father lives in a 1 bedroom apartment and has a wife and another child. When my children visit, here is the sleeping arrangement:
The one bedroom has a bunk bed where my daughter gets the top bunk and dad and son get the bottom bunk. His new wife and baby sleep on the couch.
Our custody agreement states that the children must have beds. Aside from that, is there anything legally wrong with their overcrowded arrangement? My children are extremely uncomfortable. In my house, the two children each have their own rooms / beds.
What can I do, legally, to improve this situation?
