I was cheated out of my portion of his retirement
I even hired another attorney who told me I was getting half. Now after 7 yrs I found out I am not getting it. At the time I thought a 401K was retirement. I had a stroke in 97 with some brain damage. But several attorneys did not catch the wording to mean anything different then getting half.
Re: I was cheated out of my portion of his retirement
Have you taken the Divorce Decree and the QDRO, together with the plan administrator's rejection, to a new attorney to review? I recognize it is frustrating, but that is the only way to determine if you have any options left.