You don't have any expectation of privacy in statements you post online on Facebook, Twitter, etc. There are many cases of students being disciplined, kicked off sports teams, not being admitted to colleges, losing scholarships, even being expelled for things posted on those sites.
It doesn't stop after high school either, kiddo. Colleges and employers do the same thing. Attorneys also do it when they are researching cases. We find out everything we can about the witnesses and parties, including trolling the social network sites for their information.
You learned a lesson the hard way. Don't post things online unless you are prepared for the entire world to see it...Including your parents, priest, school administrators, teachers, police, criminals, predators, news media, Chinese spies, terrorists, everyone and anyone. Also understand that whatever you put online will likely stay there even after you think it has been "deleted". Things in cyberspace are copied so much that nothing can ever come back completely once it is out on the net.