Really.
Spousal support only happens if he files with DRO in your county. If you fail for divorce and include a fault ground he's barred from spousal support,
He only get equitable distribution if there's a divorce. So file against him.
Visitation he's going to have the kid visit him in prison. . Not that it couldn't happen but I want to hear how he can say that is in the best interest of the child.to see the man who made his wife and son victims of violent crime.
You need to file for divorce with a fault ground immediately. Contact your county bar association.for a referral to lawyer.
{John}